10 Questions with Payne by Name
Ten Questions with Payne by Name
1. Describe your blog in five sentences or less.
Payne by name charts the weekly highs and lows of a typical 30-something British male. It’s peppered with insightful, entertaining, albeit sometimes totally un-PC observations and musings of life today. PBN doesn’t hold back, he readily opens up his life (and his head) to the unsuspecting reader who quickly gets to know in passing his views on all number of diverse topics. The prose is light, though not unintelligent or lightweight, and while some will be daunted by the sheer length of his entries, those that are capable of reading more than one paragraph will find treasure hidden there.
2. Link us to one post from your blog that best defines who you are.
http://www.paynebyname.com/page16.htm
3. What sets you apart from other bloggers?
Honesty and sincerity. A belief that content is ultimately more important than presentation.
4. When and how did you first discover blogging?
It was at the end of 2005 when a work colleague bought me a ‘create your own website’ package. To be honest it was one of the best gifts I’ve ever been given. Something that gave me a voice and an online presence.
5. What is your biggest pet peeve related to blogging or the internet?
The reverse chronological order of a blog. You randomly stumble on a blog and have to gauge whether to invest the time reading more by the very last entry. You are then basically reading everything in reverse. What I like about my site is you can go straight to categories such as movies, women, relationships to get an idea of the kind of person I am and then if interested can tackle the journals.
Also the whole tally of comments and hit counters one-upmanship. It’s almost like the amount of either determines whether someone should read your blog. In reality though it’s the most popular ones that don’t have the time to genuinely interact or connect with others. They might be entertaining but they are almost run more like a business than the musings of a genuine person.
6. Name one plugin, blogging widget, or service that you can’t live without.
This is where I demonstrate my lack of knowledge. I work on my site and web surfing at work so don’t really use any of the above.
7. If you could choose anyone, living or dead, to write a guest post for your blog, who would it be and why?
Never sure about the whole guest blogging thing. If the blog is meant to be your online presence or persona then getting someone else to do it seems wrong. From a purely selfish point of view it would probably be Sylvester Stallone. I find he is much misunderstood and dismissed by too many kudos seeking, chin rubbers. Whenever I’ve seen him interviewed he comes across as intelligent, funny and self effacing. Yet many want to label him a fool to curry favour with those individuals equally unwilling to give someone a chance. I think his blog entry would be fascinating.
8. How has blogging made you a better person?
I think it’s helped my writing and it’s given me a place that I can say to people if you genuinely want to know me then paynebyname is me. So many people on the web are insincere or want to paint a false picture of themselves. My site is me, warts and all. Some will like and some will not but at least it’s an accurate representation of my thoughts and opinions.
9. What are your tips for becoming a better blogger.
Write more about yourself and don’t be afraid to open up. People want to feel a connection when reading a blog so you need to engage them with from the heart stuff. Also if you going to have comments enabled, take the time to reply to them otherwise it’s clear that you only have them for ego massage.
10. Name one great blog that you read on a regular basis. What makes it unique?
I read Kentucky Girl a lot. It’s well presented and well written. It probably isn’t that unique but that’s what is at the heart of blogging. I don’t read certain blogs because I want others to see that I read the ‘coolest’ blogs. I just want to keep up with genuine nice people. Kentucky Girl is one of them. She sometimes contributes to a blog review site and along with others caned me when I submitted my site for review some time back. Unlike so many others though she took the time to look below the surface and beyond the fact that it didn’t conform to the normal blog format. After a year of keeping a watching brief she contacted me.
One has a website / blog for some kind of approval that maybe you aren’t that bad a person. Her eventual appreciation of my site and in turn me as a person was a shining moment for the notion that someone had understood me and validation for all my efforts.


I actually don’t remember how it was that I came upon this blog. I just remember that I completely forgot about whatever it was I was originally looking for and got lost in the humor.
